Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Actions speak louder than words. Except when they don't.

 "Show me don't tell me."  "Talk is cheap."   Common expressions that convey a similar message pretty clearly.  But make no mistake, words have power too.  I guess it comes as no surprise that a person writing a blog would emphatically make that point.  Consider too that words are indeed mystical and can take on multiple forms.  As much as I enjoy reading and writing the written form of words, I have to admit that perhaps the most powerful incarnation are words in their spoken form.  I have never been more aware of this than I was recently in an unexpected moment halfway through a normal work day.

 I am privileged to work with incredibly talented and inspiring men and women, so it's not with surprise but with gratitude that I share this moment.  After doing some small thing or another to be of assistance to my coworker Sarah, she looked at me and simply said "I appreciate you".                My world tangibly shifted.  I was stopped in my tracks by those three words.  No plate of cookies, gift card, or movie pass could have made me feel more appreciated than I did in that moment.

 But on reflection I realize those three words aren't the easiest to say to another person.  I'm not accustomed to expressing my appreciation in such a bold, honest manner.  I've always been more inclined to make a mental note to find a way to show my appreciation...and then maybe remembering to do so...  
I think I prefer Sarah's approach.  As with any new behavior, it'll take practice, and yes, a little courage, but here I think I've found a moment worth paying forward.  To think not only of showing appreciation but to in fact speak it.

 However once spoken, who doesn't love a plate of cookies?
                                             
                                                      

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